BEHIND THE BOOK

Listen to me talking about how I came to write The Earth, My Butt, and Other Big Round Things

The Earth, My Butt, and Other Big Round Things is very close to my heart. I know that every book an author writes is probably very close to her/his heart, but this one is especially so. I wrote The Earth, My Butt, and Other Big Round Things at a time in my life when I was thinking hard about so much things – how much we compare ourselves to our families (and so often feel like we don't measure up), how much potential we could have (if we didn't judge ourselves so harshly), how we react to negative experiences (becoming a victim or choosing to be empowered), and how sometimes we just feel so alone in the world (but maybe we're not, after all?).

I wrote a bulk of this story during the summer I turned twenty-eight. For three weeks that August, I drove up to my mom's lake house in Central New York and "went underground" (that's what I call it when I don't email, don't hang out with friends, just write, write, write). For those three weeks, I wrote from the early morning until late at night. I took long walks along this stony path next to the lake and thought about my characters. I literally lived in Virginia's head. One day, when I was writing a particularly intense scene (pages 72-77), every muscle in my body was on edge. Once I was done, I actually got a migraine headache. That's how much I was identifying with Virginia.

It's been very exciting that The Earth, My Butt, and Other Big Round Things has been so well received. It won the American Library Association Printz Honor. It's been optioned for film rights. And, most importantly, I get so many messages from readers telling me that The Earth, My Butt, and Other Big Round Things helped them feel better about themselves as they are, made them stop hurting their bodies, guided them through a difficult time in their lives, and made them feel less alone. And do you know what, readers? Your letters make me feel like we're all connected in a special and intimate way. They make me feel less alone, too.